From Disappointment to Determination: A New Path Forward

Ep 62: From Disappointment to Determination: A New Path Forward with Brian Pughsley
Summary of the episode
This episode of noseyAF centers around disappointment and reflection following the 2024 election results, highlighting the importance of community, faith, and resilience. Host Stephanie Graham expresses her pride in the efforts made by individuals who supported Vice President Harris, emphasizing that their hard work should not feel wasted. Reverend Brian Pughsley joins the conversation, offering a powerful message about faith and perseverance during challenging times. He encourages listeners to strengthen their convictions and unite in their causes, reminding everyone that the fight for rights and justice continues. Together, they inspire a sense of hope and determination to push forward, regardless of the obstacles ahead.
Takeaways:
- In times of disappointment, it is essential to reflect on the effort we put into the election process.
- Reverend Brian Pusley emphasizes the importance of strengthening faith and community in challenging times.
- The podcast highlights the necessity of activism and unity within the community for future rights.
- Brian encourages listeners to stay ready and equipped to fight for their rights and the rights of others.
- Stephanie expresses gratitude for the support and dedication of those who worked for change during the election.
- The message is one of hope and resilience, reminding us that God is still in control.
About Rev Brian C. Pughsley:
Rev. Brian C. Pughsley is a multifaceted preacher, actor, rapper, writer, and podcaster dedicated to connecting with people through faith and creativity. Baptized at an early age, he answered his call to ministry on July 4, 2001, and was licensed and ordained on November 21, 2004, at Living Water Missionary Baptist Church in Hammond, Indiana, under Rev. Dr. Homer Walker, Jr.
Throughout his ministry, Rev. Brian has served in various pastoral roles, including Associate Pastor for Youth and Media Ministries at Living Water Missionary Baptist Church and Pioneer Missionary Baptist Church in South Holland, IL. His involvement has extended to youth leadership roles at Covenant United Church of Christ and New Faith Baptist Church International, where he supported ministries in prayer, media, and men’s fellowship.
Currently, Rev. Brian serves as Associate Pastor at Trinity United Church of Christ-Gary, where he also contributes as a digital pastor. In early 2023, he joined Immanuel Church Unusual in Chicago as a Digital Pastor, assisting the church's digital outreach as they launched in the area.
In 2018, Rev. Brian started a podcast, which evolved during the pandemic from entertainment-focused content to a ministry without walls, reaching people with messages of hope. A trained actor, violinist, rapper, and singer, he brings his diverse talents to each endeavor, blending artistry and ministry in meaningful ways. In his spare time, he enjoys writing, drawing, and inspiring others.
Currently, he resides in the suburbs of Chicago, IL.
Resources mentioned in this episode
Check out Brian’s podcast, Safe Haven
Organ music Terry Brandford Walk with Me performed by Gregg ”Happy Guitar” Hayes” check out the full performance here
Worship Music: Peace - Deep Instrumental Worship full video here
Connect with Brian
Instagram: @revbrianpughsley
Website: safehavenpodcast.org
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Instagram: @stephaniegraham
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Episode Credits:
Produced, Hosted, and Edited by Me, Stephanie (teaching myself audio editing!)
Lyrics: Queen Lex
Instrumental: Freddie Bam Fam
00:00 - None
00:04 - Reflections on Election 2024
01:47 - A New Direction in Faith and Community
04:26 - Preparing for the Fight Ahead
05:17 - The Fight for Rights and Unity
07:20 - The Call for Community Action
08:45 - Reflections and Future Connections
Hey, friends.
Stephanie Graham
Welcome.
Stephanie Graham
And welcome back to Nosy af.
Stephanie Graham
I know a lot of us are feeling disappointed with the outcome of election 2024, including myself.
Stephanie Graham
But I did want to take a moment to say how absolutely proud I am with everyone who did all that they could to support Vice President Harris to get her in office.
Stephanie Graham
I mean, we really were doing everything we could.
Stephanie Graham
Stephisha, Christina, Nikki.
Stephanie Graham
So, so many creators that really were knocking on doors, registering people to vote, driving people to vote.
Stephanie Graham
My friend's mom was literally giving people rides to make sure that they were able to vote.
Stephanie Graham
And, you know, it's tough.
Stephanie Graham
It's tough to have all of your hard work feel like it's gone, gone to be for nothing.
Stephanie Graham
And, you know, I'm really proud of us, though.
Stephanie Graham
I'm really, really proud.
Stephanie Graham
And, you know, we put up a really, really good fight.
Stephanie Graham
And, I don't know, it's just been tough, but I feel like for me, this has been an opportunity for me to really reflect and think.
Stephanie Graham
And.
Stephanie Graham
I don't know, this is where my faith, my spiritual walk really starts to get fired up.
Stephanie Graham
So today I.
Stephanie Graham
I'm taking this podcast in a bit of a new direction.
Stephanie Graham
I know you've been having these election episodes, and here comes another one.
Stephanie Graham
And, you know, I reached out to my good friend Reverend Brian Pusley of the Safe Haven Podcast to share a message with us.
Stephanie Graham
Because, you know, as black folks, we know when times get dark, we always turn to the Lord for our strength and guidance.
Stephanie Graham
And so Brian and I went to school together.
Stephanie Graham
We share the same birthday.
Stephanie Graham
We both love God.
Stephanie Graham
I mean, he's a reverend, and I don't know, I just thought that him sharing something would be helpful to me.
Stephanie Graham
And in turn, I'm hoping that it would be helpful to you.
Stephanie Graham
So, Brian, take it away.
Reverend Brian Pusely
Hello, my name is Reverend Brian C.
Reverend Brian Pusely
Pusely of Safe Haven Podcast.
Reverend Brian Pusely
I want to thank my friend Stephanie Graham for inviting me to take part in this program this week.
Reverend Brian Pusely
What are we talking about today?
Reverend Brian Pusely
We're talking about trying to find a new way, a new path, so to speak, because right now, we are going through so many things.
Reverend Brian Pusely
We are going through what many of the people in the Bible went through in 1st Samuel 8, where a lot of the people prayed for King.
Reverend Brian Pusely
They.
Reverend Brian Pusely
They rejected God in this respect.
Reverend Brian Pusely
Now, don't worry if you were the ones that did not vote for him, don't worry about it, because you're not the ones that rejected God, but the ones that did have.
Reverend Brian Pusely
So therefore, what do you do?
Reverend Brian Pusely
You God saying, I let this happen.
Reverend Brian Pusely
But don't worry, I'm not going to let this.
Reverend Brian Pusely
I'm not going to let his plan prevail.
Reverend Brian Pusely
So therefore, don't sit there and cower in fear about what's going to happen in the next four years.
Reverend Brian Pusely
No, this is what you do within the next four years.
Reverend Brian Pusely
You continue to get stronger in your faith, you get stronger in your convictions, you get stronger in your purpose.
Reverend Brian Pusely
Whatever it is that you are here on this earth for now is the time to showcase it in a stronger and more profound way than ever before.
Reverend Brian Pusely
Maybe this is a sign.
Reverend Brian Pusely
Maybe this is the lesson in order for us to receive and achieve a bigger blessing.
Reverend Brian Pusely
Maybe we got a little complacent.
Reverend Brian Pusely
Maybe we got a little too comfortable in our skin.
Reverend Brian Pusely
But now, now is the time that we do something better.
Reverend Brian Pusely
We do something even better.
Reverend Brian Pusely
We get better.
Reverend Brian Pusely
We get become more united in our cause, in our fight.
Reverend Brian Pusely
Maybe we were a little not together.
Reverend Brian Pusely
Maybe we weren't as united as we should be.
Reverend Brian Pusely
But now is the time that we, as they say, man up or we woman up.
Reverend Brian Pusely
We get ready.
Reverend Brian Pusely
We get ready for this fight.
Reverend Brian Pusely
Because this battle, this war is not over.
Reverend Brian Pusely
No, it's just getting started.
Reverend Brian Pusely
So therefore, guys, I want to let you all know that it's not over.
Reverend Brian Pusely
And I'm encouraging you to stay strong, stay prayed up and stay ready to do whatever it is you have to do by whatever means necessary to get the job done, get the mission done.
Reverend Brian Pusely
Because right now we're fighting for our rights.
Reverend Brian Pusely
We're fighting for everyone's rights.
Reverend Brian Pusely
We're fighting for female rights.
Reverend Brian Pusely
We're fighting for civil rights, black rights.
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Every right that's out there that is not.
Reverend Brian Pusely
That there are against.
Reverend Brian Pusely
Well, guess what?
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We are not going to stand.
Reverend Brian Pusely
We're not going to sit down and let them do what they think that you can do to us.
Reverend Brian Pusely
Because we are not.
Reverend Brian Pusely
They think we are.
Reverend Brian Pusely
We are stronger than that.
Reverend Brian Pusely
We are.
Reverend Brian Pusely
We are united in the cause to make sure that the plan that God has for us.
Reverend Brian Pusely
That's right, God.
Reverend Brian Pusely
God is still in control.
Reverend Brian Pusely
Don't forget that.
Reverend Brian Pusely
Just because you think and feel that God was off the wheel for one.
Reverend Brian Pusely
Took his eyes off the prize for a minute.
Reverend Brian Pusely
No, he did not.
Reverend Brian Pusely
He knows what's going on.
Reverend Brian Pusely
And you know what?
Reverend Brian Pusely
He is equipping you right now to do what has to be done.
Reverend Brian Pusely
So stay prayed up, stay ready, stay on the battlefield.
Reverend Brian Pusely
Because quite frankly, that's all we got now.
Reverend Brian Pusely
Because let's continue to educate our next generation.
Reverend Brian Pusely
Because quite frankly, if they're going to do what we think they're going to do.
Reverend Brian Pusely
Our future has no chance.
Reverend Brian Pusely
But guess what?
Reverend Brian Pusely
Our future does have a chance because we're still here.
Reverend Brian Pusely
We're still doing what?
Reverend Brian Pusely
Guess what we're doing.
Reverend Brian Pusely
We're still breathing.
Reverend Brian Pusely
So therefore, let's do it.
Reverend Brian Pusely
Let's do this.
Reverend Brian Pusely
Now, I'm going to give a quick prayer real quickly and then I'm going to turn it back over to the host.
Reverend Brian Pusely
Dear Heavenly Father, right now, we pray that you just use us, you equip us to do what we have to do in order to fulfill your will.
Reverend Brian Pusely
Heavenly Father, yes, somebody that we may not like is going to take over the wheel, but we got to remember that you are the king, the true king, the true president of our lives, Lord.
Reverend Brian Pusely
Heavenly Father.
Reverend Brian Pusely
So therefore, we're going to just follow your will.
Reverend Brian Pusely
We're going to follow your guidance on Heavenly Father, but we're going to do everything we can within the rights that has been placed before us to make sure that your will is done and achieved in the way that it should be achieved.
Reverend Brian Pusely
We pray in this prayer in your son Jesus name.
Reverend Brian Pusely
Amen.
Reverend Brian Pusely
Thank God and I thank you for this time and I pray that there will be another time and I shall return.
Reverend Brian Pusely
God bless.
Stephanie Graham
Prayers, community, action, change.
Stephanie Graham
All of these things are so needed right now, y'all.
Stephanie Graham
I am so happy that we are artists, that we are activists, that we are filmmakers, that we are change makers because we're needed right now more than ever.
Stephanie Graham
And I am so, so, so, so, so, so, so thankful that Reverend Brian was able to take the time to do a quick hot take, prayer and sermon for us about a new way.
Stephanie Graham
I am encouraged and honestly, I'm resting in the fact that with this knucklehead coming to office, we really have no choice but to rest on God and see what happens.
Stephanie Graham
All while doing our part.
Stephanie Graham
Just like Brian said.
Stephanie Graham
Safe Haven with Brian Pusely is available in the exact same place where you are listening to my podcast, Nosy af.
Stephanie Graham
Thank you for going to church with me, y'all.
Stephanie Graham
I really appreciate it.
Stephanie Graham
I said thank you for going to church with me, y'all.
Stephanie Graham
I said thank you for going to church with me.
Stephanie Graham
I'm pretending like I have church organs in my head one day at a time.
Stephanie Graham
We have each other and I am so thankful for that.
Stephanie Graham
I'm so thankful for that.
Stephanie Graham
Listen, I know this was a different podcast.
Stephanie Graham
And next episode we are back with a brand new artist for you to meet or be reintroduced to again and I can't wait for you to meet them.
Stephanie Graham
I look forward to hearing your feedback on this episode, on the election episodes and you know, did you like the prayer?
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Hate it.
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Want more of it?
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I want to know.
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I truly love when y'all talk to me, so please don't hesitate to hit me up.
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I love hearing from you and I adore you.
Stephanie Graham
So until next time, y'all take care.
Stephanie Graham
This has been another episode of Nosy af.
Stephanie Graham
I'm your host, Stephanie Graham.
Stephanie Graham
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Stephanie Graham
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Until next time, y'all stay curious and take care.
Stephanie Graham
Bye.